Oneness in This Also

In marriage two become one. That includes so many matters including the financial resources of the family. Husband and wife must stand together on how to gain and distribute their finances. Many problems arise over money and it ought not so to be. What they have belongs to both even if only one is bringing home a paycheck. Actually is all belongs to God and they are stewards together. This is an area where compromise, consideration, and selflessness MUST take precedent. Family first

When there is strife here there will be strife elsewhere. There is no justification for it. Should serious disagreements arise the couple should seek outside help and not "dig in their heels" to get one's own way.

When you truly love your mate, you will want to include them in every way you can. Better to forfeit your will than disrupt your home. That goes both ways, too.